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Poaching or just moving clubs

Poaching is the illegal taking or tapping up of players contrary to league laws.

Which leads me to discuss poaching as its known in Irish soccer circles. I always taught poaching was an easy tap in or being in the right place at the right time. i.e. a Lineker or a Keane etc.

From July 1st its open season again and below will you find some tips, if you’re thinking of moving your child to a new set-up. 

Under age Poaching

Poaching at underage age football in Ireland has be going one since I played football.  The carry on is laughable, from managers ringing other managers to warn them off their players, managers ringing parents promising them trials at the best clubs in the world or aggressive managers just ringing none stop and offering parents an ultimatum. And then you have the weekly expenses, ipads, washing machines and boots etc.

In fact the entire pre-season is somewhat similar to a cattle market, players are talked about, managers are looking for the best stock with the most potential.The only differnece is usually livestock are sent to market because they have reached their slaughter weight and are at the end of their productive life, either for milk production or breeding and are to be sold for further fattening, breeding, milking etc. In our case its the opposite, the player is at the start of his productive life, still learning his trade and hopefully developing into something special, with hope that he/she maybe one day gone on to play in the League of Ireland or for Ireland.

The Poacher

The poacher has only a few weeks to do his trade and try and convince the player of a better opportunity, he must also convince the parent/guardian of the child that moving clubs will benefit the boy/girl in the long run. This decision has to be the right one or else it can be catastrophic for the player.

Of course a lot of parents think they’ve got the next Robbie Keane, and the talent scouts for the big junior clubs are happy to go along with that. They go as far to promise the earth, if little Robbie will go with them. They tell them the fees will be covered and even promise to buy the mother a new washing machine. Some clubs are brilliant at it and some not so good, but all with one intention to get the best players no matter what age, playing and winning league and cup titles for their club.

Some clubs have the credentials, they have the pulling power, the facilities, the coaching structures and a good reputation of success, others are great at convincing naive parents about the future possibilities for their son or daughter.

The Big Switch

The decision you make for your child or in fact the child makes for himself, must have the child best interest at heart.  Your child may be one of the best player at his current team and enjoys having that responsibility – moving to a another team, he may not be the number one player or have as much responsibility as before. He/she may find it hard not to be the center of attention.

See some things to consider when moving clubs: 

  • Most elite teams have 2-3 players who stand out more then the rest, you child may have been one of these players in his previous club and now finds himself down the pecking order. This sometimes can be hard to deal with.
  • He/she may have to work his way into the starting line up, again this may not have been the case previously. This could have an effect on his/her confidence.
  • A whole set of new players and coaches to get to know and sometimes at the younger ages this can be difficult to adapt too.
  • The coaching will most likely be different and may not be as enjoyable as before or may be even more enjoyable.
  • Are the coaches experienced or just good poachers, If you really want to know whether you’ve made the right choice for your kid, you need to attend training. That is where you will see the coach in action. You’ll see how they are being taught and how the players are being treated. You won’t be dependent on your kid to relay accurate information.
  • Don’t sign straight way, make sure your child is happy before you sign the dotted line.
  • Ask about the ratio of kids to coaches. Eight to ten kids per coach would be ideal. You definitely wouldn’t want it to be higher than 14 kids per coach.
  • Most top clubs now a days have good facilities and structures and require that coaches be trained and garda vetted but no harm in asking and checking to see where they will be training etc
  • Are the training session planned, are they organised, fun, age and skill level appropriate.
  • If you aren’t satisfied, take a look at the with neighboring teams. It may be worth a little extra drive time to get your kids in a better set-up.
  • Speak to other parents and ask them about the club and the coaches. You are putting your child in the hands of these people, you have a right to know.
  • Be as honest as possible with your current club, good coaches want to see their players progress even if it means moving to a better level of football. A coach/club should always leave the door open for any player who wants to see if they can move up a level or try a new club. If players feels they are always welcome back, then it makes things easier for everyone concerned.
  • You must remember to be respectful to your current club and communicating will always make things better. People like to speculate, so best to get in there early and let the manager know. After all, he has been giving up his own time to help you.
  • Make sure he/she is really wanted and its not just a ploy to get his/her best friend to the club and using you as a screen.
  • They must want to move and not be forced or pressurised in any way. Change is good but it must be his/her decision.
  • Check to see what the managers plans are, is he a win at all costs type manager or does he develop the kids properly and try to play football, allowing them to take risks and be expressive.  Make sure he is not just picking the bigger stronger guys over the smaller more technical ones. Proper coaching and encouraging kids to get on the ball, always win out in the long run.
  • If its the case that they have been asked to move from the B team to the A Team again consider all of the above.
  • Ask you child how he/she feels about the situation and then ask the question again after a few weeks with his new club.

“Sometimes questions are more important than answers.”

Remember if you child is not having fun or playing with a smile then they won’t be performing at their best and this can lead to him/her not getting on the team. The most important thing for any child playing sport is that they are enjoying themselves and playing regularly. They are not always going to play well, kids have off days too; once they are having FUN, learning and smiling, that’s all that counts.

Being a sports parents is not easy and driving your child or children to and from training needs to be considered. The worst thing you can do is start missing work because of your childs sport. It has to be the perfect fit, for you and your child……..Remember to consider your life, as well as you child’s.

“Example isn’t another way to teach, it is the only way to teach.”

Good luck for the season ahead and remember soccer should be about playing and not winning.

-End

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8 more step to being a winning parent

Numero Seis – WHOSE GOAL IS IT?

A very important question! Why is he/she participating in the sport? Are they doing it because they want to, for them, or because of YOU. When they have problems in their sport do you talk about them as “our” problems, “we are not performing well”, “we’re having trouble with our fitness” , etc. Are they playing because they don’t want to disappoint you, because they know how important the sport is to you? Are they playing for rewards and “bonuses” that you give out? Are their goals and aspirations yours or theirs? How invested are you in their success and failure? If they are competing to please you or for your glory they are in it for the wrong reasons!

Further, if they stay involved for you, ultimately everyone will lose. It is quite normal and healthy to want your child to excel and be as successful as possible. But, you cannot make this happen by pressuring them with your expectations or by using guilt or bribery to keep them involved. If they have their own reasons and own goals for participating, they will be far more motivated to excel and therefore far more successful.

Seven – YOUR CHILD IS NOT HIS PERFORMANCE-LOVE HIM/HER UNCONDITIONALLY

Do not equate your child’s self-worth and lovability with his performance. The most tragic and damaging mistake reported that parents continually make is punishing a child for a bad performance by withdrawing emotionally from them. A child loses a game, misses a tackle and easy shot on goal and the parent responds with disgust, anger and withdrawal of love and approval. CAUTION: Only use this strategy if you want to damage your child emotionally and ruin your relationship with him. In the 1988 Olympics, when Greg Louganis needed and got a perfect 10 on his last dive to overtake the Chinese diver for the gold medal, his last thought before he went was, “If I don’t make it, my mother will still love me”.

8 – REMEMBER THE IMPORTANCE OF SELF-ESTEEM IN ALL OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH YOUR CHILD-Sports player

Athletes of all ages and levels perform in direct relationship to how they feel about themselves. When your child is in an athletic environment that boosts his self-esteem, he will learn faster, enjoy himself more and perform better under competitive pressure. One thing we all want as children and never stop wanting is to be loved and accepted, and to have our parents feel good about what we do. This is how self-esteem gets established.

When your interactions with your child make him feel good about himself, he will, in turn, learn to treat himself this very same way. This does not mean that you have to incongruently compliment your child for a great effort after they have just performed miserably. In this situation being empathic and sensitive to his feelings is what’s called for. Self esteem makes the world go round. Make your child feel good about himself and you’ve given him a gift that lasts a lifetime. Do not interact with your child in a way that assaults his self-esteem by degrading, embarrassing or humiliating him. If you continually put your child down or minimize his accomplishments not only will he learn to do this to himself throughout his life, but he will also repeat your mistake with his children!

STEP NINE- GIVE YOUR CHILD THE GIFT OF FAILURE

If you really want your child to be as happy and as successful as possible in everything that he does, teach him how to fail! The most successful people in and out of sports do two things differently than everyone else. First, they are more willing to take risks and therefore fail more frequently. Second, they use their failures in a positive way as a source of motivation and feedback to improve. Our society is generally negative and teaches us that failure is bad, a cause for humiliation and embarrassment, and something to be avoided at all costs. Fear of failure or humiliation causes one to be tentative and non-active. In fact, most performance blocks and poor performances are a direct result of the athlete being preoccupied with failing or messing up.

You can’t learn to walk without falling enough times. Each time that you fall your body gets valuable information on how to do it better. You can’t be successful or have peak performances if you are concerned with losing or failing. Teach your child how to view setbacks, mistakes and risk-taking positively and you’ll have given him the key to a lifetime of success.

Failure is the perfect stepping stone to success.

10 – CHALLENGE, DON’T THREATEN

Many parents directly or indirectly use guilt and threats as a way to “motivate” their child to perform better. Performance studies clearly indicate that while threats may provide short term results, the long term costs in terms of psychological health and performance are devastating. Using fear as a motivator is probably one of the worst dynamics you could set up with your child.

Threats take the fun out of performance and directly lead to your child performing terribly – implicit in a threat, (do this or else!) is your own anxiety that you do not believe the child is capable. Communicating this lack of belief, even indirectly is further devastating to the child’s performance. A challenge does not entail loss or negative consequences should the athlete fail. Further, implicit in a challenge is the empowering belief, “I think that you can do it”.

STEP ELEVEN – STRESS PROCESS, NOT OUTCOME

When athletes choke under pressure and perform far below their potential, a very common cause of this is a focus on the outcome of the performance (i.e., win/lose, instead of the process). In any peak performance, the athlete is totally oblivious to the outcome and instead is completely absorbed in the here and now of the actual performance.

An outcome focus will almost always distract and tighten up the athlete insuring a bad performance. Furthermore focusing on the outcome, which is completely out of the athlete’s control will raise his anxiety to a performance inhibiting level. So if you truly want your child to win, help get his focus away from how important the contest is and have them focus on the task at hand. Supportive parents de-emphasise winning and instead stress learning the skills and playing the game.

12 – AVOID COMPARISONS AND RESPECT DEVELOPMENTAL DIFFERENCES

Supportive parents do not use other athletes that their child competes against to compare and thus evaluate their child’s progress. Comparisons are useless, inaccurate and destructive. Each child matures differently and the process of comparison ignores significant distorting effects of developmental differences.

For example, two 12 year old boys may only have their age in common! One may physically have the build and perform like a 16 year old while the other, a late developer, may have the physical size and attribute of a 9 year old. Performance comparisons can prematurely turn off otherwise talented athletes on their sport. The only value of comparisons is in teaching.

If one child demonstrates proper technique, that child can be used comparatively as a model only! For your child to do his very best he needs to learn to stay within himself. Worrying about how another athlete is doing interferes with him doing this.

Thirteen – TEACH YOUR CHILD TO HAVE A PERSPECTIVE ON THE SPORTS EXPERIENCE

The sports media would like you to believe that sports and winning/losing is larger than life. The fact that it is just a game frequently gets lost in translation.

This lack of perspective frequently trickles down to the kids sports and young sports players often come away from competition with a distorted view of themselves and how they performed.

Parents need to help their children develop realistic expectations about themselves, their abilities and how they played, without robbing the child of his dreams. Scoring a hatrick and losing is a time for celebration, not depression. Similarly, losing the league does not mean that the sun will not rise tomorrow.

Sports Psychology tips taken from Dr. Goldbergs Excerpts – Thank you Dr.G

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5 Steps to Being a Winning Parent..

If you want your child to come out of his youth sports experience a winner (feeling good about himself and having a healthy attitude towards sports), then he needs your help!

You are a vital and important part of the coach-athlete-parent team. If you do your job correctly and play your position well, then your child will learn the sport faster, perform better, really have fun and have his self-esteem enhanced as a result. His sport experience will serve as a positive model for him to follow as he approaches other challenges and obstacles throughout life. If you “drop the ball” or run the wrong way with it, your child will stop learning, experience performance difficulties and blocks, and begin to really hate the sport. And that’s the good news!

Further, your relationship with him will probably suffer significantly. As a result, he will come out of this experience burdened with feelings of failure, inadequacy and low self-esteem, feelings that will generalise to other areas in his life. Your child and his coach need you on the team. They can’t win without you!

The following are a list of useful facts, guidelines and strategies for you to use to make you more skilled in the youth development. Remember, no wins unless everyone wins. You need to be part of the team!

One – Compete

Competition in YOUTH sports is both good and healthy and teaches children a variety of important life skills. The word “compete” comes from the Latin words “com” and “petere” which mean together and seeking respectively. The true definition of competition is a seeking together where your opponent is your partner, not the enemy!

The better he performs, the more chance you have of having a peak performance. Sports is about learning to deal with challenges and obstacles. Without a worthy opponent, without any challenges sports is not so much fun. The more the challenge the better the opportunity you have to go beyond your limits. World records are consistently broken and set at the Olympics because the best athletes in the world are “seeking together”, challenging each other to enhanced performance.

Your child should never be taught to view his opponent as the “bad guy”, the enemy or someone to be hated and “destroyed”. Do not model this attitude! Instead, talk to/make friends with parents of your child’s opponent. Applaud for great performances, great play, Fantastic save, not just for the winner!

Two – Encourage your child to COMPETE against HIMSELF

The ultimate goal of the sport experience is to challenge oneself and continually improve. Unfortunately, judging improvement by winning and losing is both an unfair and inaccurate measure. Winning in sports is about doing the best you can do, seperate from the outcome or how your opponent played. Children should be encouraged to compete against their own potential (i.e., Jack and Jill Potential).

That is, the boys should focus on beating “Jack”, competing against themselves, while the girls challenge “Jill”. When your child has this focus and plays to better himself instead of beating someone else, he will be more relaxed, have more fun and therefore perform better.

Numero 3 – Do not define success and failure in terms of Winning and Losing.

A corollary to TWO, one of the main purposes of the youth sports experience is skill acquisition and mastery. When a child performs to his potential and loses, it is criminal to focus on the outcome and become critical. If a child plays his very best and loses, you need to help him feel like a winner! Similarly, when a child or team performs far below their potential but wins, this is not cause to feel like a winner. Help your child make this important separation between success and failure and winning and losing. Remember, if you define success and failure in terms of winning and losing, you’re playing a losing game with your child!

Four – Be Supportive, Do not Coach!

Your role on the parent-coach-athlete team is as a Support player with a capital S! You need to be your child’s best fan. unconditionally! Leave the coaching and instruction to the coach. Provide encouragement, support, empathy..! Coaching interferes with your role as supporter and fan. The last thing your child needs and wants to hear from you after a disappointing performance…..

Keep your role as a parent on the team separate from that as coach, and, if by necessity you actually get stuck in the almost no-win position of having to coach your child, try to maintain this separation of roles (i.e. At the game “Now I’m talking to you as a coach”, at home say, “Now I’m talking to you as a parent”). Don’t parent when you coach and don’t coach at home when you’re supposed to be parenting.

Five – Make Sport FUN….!

It’s a time proven principle of peak performance that the more fun a player is having, the more they will learn and the better they will perform. FUN must be present for peak performance to happen at every level of sports from youth to world class competitor! When a child stops having fun and begins to dread practice or competition, it’s time for you as a parent to become concerned! When the sport or game becomes too serious, athletes have a tendency to burn out and become susceptible to repetitive performance problems. An easy rule of thumb: If your child is not enjoying what they are doing, nor loving it to the max, INVESTIGATE!

What is going on that’s preventing them from having fun? Is it the coaching? The pressure? Is it you?! Keep in mind that being in a highly competitive LEAGUE does not mean that there is no room for fun. The child that continues to play long after the fun is going, will soon become a drop out statistic..FACT!!

6 to 13 next week…

Sports Psychology tips taken from Dr. Goldbergs Excerpts – Thank you Dr.G

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PaR’A’NTS are ruining their kids game..

We are not long into the season and already parents are playing a leading role in there childs development. Some have it spot on, allowing their child enjoy the game with no pressure to win, just making sure they enjoy every minute of every game they play. They never interfere with the coaches training, tactics or player rotation. They bring their child to and from training every single week, they thank the coach after training and wish them well for the match.

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They also make sure the child is getting extra training at home if needed and requested and depending on the level their boy or girl might be playing at, they work on various aspects of the game that might enhance his or hers ability as a player, (Never pressure them with your expectations, they must decide if they want to put in some extra training). They will never push to breaking point nor will they define success and failure in terms of winning and losing.

They are always supportive and never negative or aggressive, they are fathers or mothers and not coaches!!!

Children hate being told what they should have done…

Most parents that get into trouble with their children do so because they forget to remember the important position that they play. Coaching interferes with your role as supporter and fan. The last thing your child needs and wants to hear from you after a disappointing performance or loss is what they did technically or tactically wrong. Leave the coaching and instruction to the coach. Provide encouragement, support, empathy, transportation, money, help with fund-raisers, etc., but… do not coach!


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Enjoy the football this weekend KIDS!

Firstly best of luck to all the kids (kids means anyone u18s) playing this weekend. I hope they all get to play and enjoy this recreational sport!

Could you imagine an under 8s/9s/10s etc game on a Saturday where we just let the kids play and didn’t shout at them every time a player touched the ball. Why do we get so caught up in a kids game, where the only thing at stake is a few points! Only 1 team can win the league….so why put some much pressure on these young kids and expect them to play like the pro’s

How many games, did you win….who cares!

I mean, do you actually remember how many games you won as a kid?, I certainly dont and I can assure you that all kids playing on a Saturday and Sunday don’t either, in fact they forget soon after the final whistle  and sometimes quicker, all depends on how long their parent goes on about how “they should have done this or that”.

Its time we just “let the kids play”, its time to stop all this competitive football at under age, its wrong and all its doing is giving the parents and coaches satisfaction, its not good for the game, its certainly not good for players development.

Lets change this now, for once lets follow structures that actually work and will benefit the Kids & the game in the long run. In work in Europe and in South America they produce vast about of technically gifted kids by allowing the kids to think for themselves whilst providing age appropriate coaching in a safe environment.

Can our kids not be competitive?

Non Competitive doesn’t mean the kids can’t be competitive, they always will and that will never change. Its means coaches and parents have nothing to play for, no league, no points; which means the kids can play and enjoy the game without being shouting at every-time they touch the ball! Parents and coaches can sit back and enjoy the game because that’s all it is….and a kids game at that!

In the meantime whilst we push for Non Competitive at certain ages, age appropriate games, goals and balls…try and sit back and enjoy the experience of watching your child play. So when you start you pitch side prowling and barking this weekend, think about how this is effecting the kids in a negative way! It’s best to say nothing and don’t allow a certain few to control the line. The only voices that should be heard are the kids.

“you don’t shout over your kids teacher at school, so why shout over your child football coach”

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Sport in Ireland

I recently read a report by the sports council on School Children and Sport in Ireland. These are some of the excerpts from this report.

The Facts – Main Findings of the ERSI School Children & Sport in Ireland

The main health benefits commonly associated with physical activity for children are improved increased academic performance, cardiovascular performance, strengthening of the musculoskeletal system, reduced stress and anxiety, enhanced self-esteem, reduced risk of chronic disease such as hypertension, type 2 diabetes, obesity and cardiovascular disease.

The relationship between lack of physical activity and obesity has become a particularly important issue in recent years because of concerns about the rapidly rising incidence of obesity among children and adults (National Task Force on Obesity, 2005).

Children’s Physical, Personal, Social and emotional Development

In addition to its benefits for health, sport also makes an important contribution to children’s physical, personal, social and emotional development, a fact that underpins the place of physical education in the school curriculum (see, e.g., Department of Education and Science, 2003). While the contribution of physical education to children’s overall development is widely recognised, it is often lamented that sport and physical education are the poor relations of the school curriculum and receive less time and attention than examination subjects (MacPhail and Halbert, 2005).

However it has also been recognised that, whatever the role of PE in schools, extra-curricular sport is a central focus of the life and identity of many schools and plays a major role in defining what Lynch (1989) calls their ‘hidden curriculum’ – the ethos and informal structures and processes that play a large role in defining the character of schools and the overall educational experience encountered by students (see also Lynch and Lodge, 2002).

In order to appreciate the role of sport in schools and thus in children’s education and development, it is therefore necessary to look beyond PE and take account of extra-curricular sport and the sometimes central significance it has in school life.

The surveys on the Health Behaviour of School-aged Children generally found lower levels of physical activity: less than 40 per cent of girls and just over 60 per cent of boys reported that they exercised four or more times per week (Kelleher et al., 2003, pp. 64-65; see also Hickman et al., 2000).

Indirect evidence suggests that children are less active now than their counterparts of 50 years ago (Boreham and Riddoch, 2001).

As the Surgeon General in the United States has pointed out, a typical fast food meal consisting of cheeseburger, French fries and soft drink (1,500 calories) would take 2½ hours jogging at 10 minutes per mile to work off, and one jelly-filled doughnut is the energy equivalent of one hour of walking at a moderate pace (Department of Health and Human Services, 2001).

At primary level,

PE is delivered by class teachers rather than specialists. Primary teachers often undertake a PE element in their basic professional training or in-service training in PE but the general perception is that primary teachers are poorly equipped to deliver PE (MacPhail and Halbert, 2005, p. 300). Other problems at primary level include the lack of facilities and insufficient time, all of which lead to a general under-provision of PE at primary level (ibid.; see also National Children’s Office, 2004, p. 25).

The remit of sports policy extends over the whole field of competitive and recreational sport for the entire population. Its key aims include increasing public participation in sport, raising performance levels in sport and supporting high level sports competition (Irish Sports Council, 2003).

At the same time, increased reliance on sports clubs and the funding they receive under sports funding programmes as a means to support PE and sport in schools may have drawbacks. The most obvious is that the sports that some people view as already too dominant in schools – that is, team based competitive sports – may become more dominant still. Thus, for example, the Youth Field Sports programme is wholly oriented to GAA games, soccer and rugby, typical examples of the kinds of sport that cause concern in this regard. A further possible problem is that supports to schools delivered through local sports clubs could be supply driven rather than demand led: they will be distributed not primarily on the basis of the needs of schools but on the basis of the capacity of sports clubs to deliver – and that capacity might be in greatest supply in better-off areas where sport in schools may be already reasonably well catered for.

The minimum amount of moderate-to-vigorous physical activity now widely recommended for young people is 60 minutes per day on all, or most, days of the week.

Indicates relatively low levels of physical activity overall, especially among girls (we must keep in mind here that the data for weekdays refer to an average over five days, which might often entail a combination of some days with a lot of exercise and other days with little or even none). Averaged in this way, only 49 per cent of boys and 31 per cent of girls exceeded the one-hour exercise threshold per weekday, while 4 per cent of boys and 4 per cent of girls did no exercise at all on those days.

Attitudes to Sport – Page 38

Students were asked two sets of items that tapped into their attitudes to sport. The first set, which asked for their responses to a set of statements about sport that were generally favourable in tone, is displayed in Table 3.15. The striking feature of the students’ attitudes revealed by these items is how positive they are. The vast majority of students indicate that they enjoy PE and sport; they think they are good at sport, their families encourage them to play sport, and they consider themselves as sporty types. A smaller majority agrees that that they enjoy sport only if they are doing well at it, but one-third disagrees with this view. Attitudes are more divided in connection with playing when there is lots of pressure to win: half the students like to play under that circumstance but 43 per cent do not.

Full statements – ‘I enjoy PE and sport in school’; ‘I enjoy doing sport and exercise in my leisure time’; ‘I am good at sport and exercise’; ‘My family encourages me to do sport and exercise’; ‘I only enjoy sport and exercise if I do it well; ‘I am a sporty type of person’; ‘I like participating in sport where there is lots of pressure to win’.

Page 39

A second set of attitudinal items examined students’ feelings about a number of possibly negative aspects of sport (Table 3.17). The majority of students were not particularly bothered by most of these items, though substantial minorities had problems with most of them. For example, 29 per cent minded getting hot, sweaty or dirty either ‘a lot’ or ‘a bit’ and 38 per cent had similar attitudes to playing sport in bad weather. The one aspect of sport that a majority of students did not like was ‘If you get left out because you are not good enough’: one-third of students minded this a lot and a further quarter minded it a bit. Thus, the risk of feeling excluded in sport stands out as a widespread negative concern in what otherwise is a generally positive picture.

School Children & Sport in Ireland – 5th and 6th Grade – Page 60

Principals in primary schools report that the vast majority of schools provide PE classes but the number of those classes per student is low. As Figure 5.1 shows, 62 per cent of schools provided timetabled PE classes once a week and 31 per cent did so two or three times a week. Of the 137 schools sampled, only 3 held timetabled classes less than once a week, and 3 held classes four or more times a week.

Table 5.1 shows the range of activities children undertook in PE, based on a question to children about the sports they played in PE over the past year. Soccer was the most common, having been played by 72 per cent of children, and Gaelic football was next, with 69 per cent. Basketball was the most common sport among girls, having been played by 71 per cent of girls. It is notable that the proportion of primary school students who recorded swimming as an activity they had undertaken in PE over the past year (53 per cent) was much greater than the corresponding proportion among second-level students (13 per cent).

As Figure 5.2 shows, the main reason that the primary pupils give for not participating more in sports is the feeling that they are already doing enough. This is the case for both boys and girls (58 per cent of boys, 43 per cent of girls). Not having enough spare time and the school not offering the sport are two other reasons but on a much lesser scale. The results on this question indicate that there is no general feeling of discouragement with sport among the pupils, nor that girls feel very differently on this question from boys.

Pupil Teacher Ratios and Teachers involved in Sport

Table 5.6 shows the numbers of teachers and students in the schools in the primary school sample and the ratios between them. The pupil-teacher ratio in primary schools is on average 16 pupils with a maximum of 26. Out of a total average staff of 9 teachers per school, 6 were involved in sport with the pupils. There are, on average, 25 students per teacher involved in sport.

Travel

As Table 5.7 shows, the majority of Irish primary school children are driven to school, either by car (55%) or by bus (18%). Almost one in four children walk to school and less than one in twenty cycle to school. Of the children who walk or cycle to school the vast majority spend a quarter of an hour or less doing so (89.1 per cent for walking, 87.7 per cent for cycling). Thus, as in the case of second-level students, it is clear that travel to school is not a significant source of physical activity for primary school children.

Television viewing and other Extra-Curricular Activities

Table 5.9 shows that high levels of television viewing are common, with one in five boys and almost one in six girls watching more than four hours a day during the week and somewhat higher proportions doing so at the weekend. One in ten boys watches six hours or more television a day at weekends. The largest groups of children watch two to three hours of television per day, both during the week and at weekends.

Over Weight and Obesity -School Children & Sport in Ireland (p.73)

This chapter has been concerned with overweight and obesity among students in the second-level and primary schools samples. Among second-level students, 4.5% of boys and 3.8% of girls were found to be obese, and a further 15.4% of boys and 16.6% of girls were overweight. Taking these two categories together, approximately one in five second-level students was either obese or overweight. In fifth and sixth classes in primary schools, levels of obesity and overweight were of a broadly similar magnitude: 3.8% of boys and 4.3% of girls were obese, and a further 15.7% of boys and 15.8% of girls were overweight.

Among second-level students, 4.5 per cent of boys and 3.8 per cent of girls were found to be obese, and a further 15.4 per cent of boys and 16.6 per cent of girls were overweight. Taking these two categories together, approximately one in five second-level students was either obese or overweight. In fifth and sixth classes in primary schools, levels of obesity and overweight were of a broadly similar magnitude: 3.8 per cent of boys and 4.3 per cent of girls were obese, and a further 15.7 per cent of boys and 15.8 per cent of girls were overweight.

Obesity Conclusion

When we examined the relationships between measures of sports participation and physical activity on the one hand and body-mass on the other, we found no strong patterns of association. This is in keeping with the findings of research in other countries, where relationships in cross-sectional data between physical activity and risk of overweight or obesity have sometimes been found to be present and sometimes not, and when present, have usually been found to be weak. The lack of a robust relationship between physical inactivity and risk of obesity in research findings may arise either because measures of physical activity do not adequately capture real variations in energy expenditure or because variations in energy expenditure are too small to counteract the effects on weight of other factors, of which diet is likely to be the most important. There is some indication from our data that very high levels of exercise, well in excess of the minimum levels recommended by international authorities, may have an effect on body mass. This possibility has recently been raised in international discussion of the adequacy of existing recommendations regarding minimum levels of physical activity required to avoid weight gain, but we would need more refined measures than those available to us here to explore this question further.

Main Findings of the ERSI School Children & Sport in Ireland

Sport in Primary School

As in second-level schools, PE is widely provided in primary schools, but usually only once a week. Again echoing the situation in second-level schools, extra-curricular sport in the school and sport in clubs outside the school are more important than PE as outlets for physical activity among children. Team sports dominate the activities undertaken in the school – and here too, as in second-level schools, basketball is an important sport in the school but is much less prominent in the non-school context. Primary schools differ from second-level schools in the prominence of swimming and dance in the activities they undertake, both in the school and out of it (dance in this context presumably often means Irish dancing).

Primary schools seem to be worse off than second-level schools for sports facilities – they are more dependent on off-site facilities (except for basketball) and generally have access to a narrower range of facilities. Over 60% of children in fifth and sixth class in primary school watch two hours or more of television per day. Of the factors in children’s lives that were measured in the data, parents’ participation in sport had a positive effect on children’s participation in sport. So too did participation in other extra-curricular activities such as music or singing classes, suggesting that the more active children tended to be more active across a number of domains. The level of sports facilities in school had a positive effect on sports participation in the school, while television viewing had a negative effect on sports participation outside the school.

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Irish Grassroots Football Soccer Parents

Embrace the mistakes and use them as a guide to improve

One of the most difficult problem we have as adults is to learn to recognise children make mistakes and including during games. That’s how children learn how to play the game and they will continue to make mistakes  – lots of them. If you can’t deal with children making mistakes, then you shouldn’t be coaching.

Let the game be the teacher

Too many adults act on their tendencies to want to point out and to correct every mistake a child makes during a game but fail to realise that the game is the time to make mistakes and training is the time to rectify that. All you are doing is intimidating the developing player and stopping  him/her from taking risks, making a decision for themselves, being creative and to often they end of playing a game that is more about the coach and less about them.

In every other walk of life you would probably be arrested for this sort of abuse and told to stay away from children for life, yet we allow this to happen every single week out in the open in front of players, parents and even the men/women who control the game the referees; yet know one ever stops a game to arrest an abusive coach.

MISTAKES

  • Mistake are the stepping stones to achievements.
  • You should always give encouragement after mistakes are made.
  • Never highlight mistakes with anger. (They know they did it)
  • If the players know how to correct a mistake, than encouragement alone is suffice.
  • Mistakes are what kids worry about the most.
  • If we can create an environment where mistakes are ok and part of the learning process, it will help to develop mental toughness.
  • Reducing fear of mistakes allows the player to focus more of his/her energy in the game.
  • Mistakes Ritual (Superman Pose) Football for all – It belongs to the kids.

As a coach it is up to you to get the training started, be organised and make it age appropriate and fun. When you come to the game again at the youngest ages it should be “Make a lot of mistakes because that’s how you’ll learn” Let the game be the coach and the coach be the mentor. Too often coaches are concentrating on what the book says (or how they were coached) and it is important for underscoring the dramatic differences between what a book suggests and what the reality is today for many kids in soccer.

I think we have now come to over coaching the kids at the youngest ages, I see coaches trying to play a Barcelona style game at u7s and u8s and already judging kids ability and athletic potential. Only the other day I heard of coaches telling 8 year olds they weren’t good enough to play football. Is this what the game has come too, not allowing kids to play and be active, taking away their dreams and confidence even before they can barely kick a ball. No one has the right to tell any child he/she can’t play soccer; a recreational game played all over the world by boys and girls of all ages. The game belongs to them not us.

We as adults need to step back and put down the remote. Let the children, no matter how old, take charge of some of there game. in practice, let them come up with some of the games strategies, let them figure out who should play which positions and never, ever, allow things to get so serious that it stops being FUN!.

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